Learn about the different cultures through the eyes of a person that lived in America for the fist part of her life before moving to the other side of the world. Mar 11, Beth rated it really liked it.
Without even trying, I found myself pausing to compare my life to the things she describes here. Buddhist beliefs were totally new to me! The author describes her new life in Bhutan in great detail, and it is enlightening, a word used but not abused. Jan 23, Angela Risner rated it liked it. Full disclosure: I received an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
To be honest, I had never heard of Bhutan before this book. But I'm so glad that I know about it now. Linda Leaming writes about her visits and eventual move to this small Bhuddist nation in such a way that it almost feels like the place is Brigadoon. She went there are first to teach English.
She met and married her husband there, and now they divide their time between Bhutan and visits with her family in Tennessee. Leaming soon learns that happiness in Bhutan is very different from the happiness we strive for in the West. Life is bare bones in Bhutan, which means that the material world fades away. Instead, there is time for things like enjoying the outdoors and creating with your own hands. It was great to learn so much about the Bhutanese. They will not make a decision without ensuring it includes two of four markers: It must be economically sound; it must help to preserver the environment; it must help promote the cultural tradition ; or it must be in keeping with good governance.
The same could be said for the journey to happiness. It's purposeful, productive and it connects you with history and the universe.
Knowing this will change you. There's something intrinsic in sitting in the grass, looking up at the sky, or walking among the trees and listening to the birds and the wind. It restores your soul.
If we go around unable or unwilling to put ourselves in other people's shoes, and lack the empathy to show respect and give people a modicum of dignity, then we are lost. Then kindness feeds itself. The mind and body work in sync.
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If they don't, then you are dead meat. You are accountable in an infinite number of ways that people without children aren't.. All of the qualities we want our kids to have - honestly, resilience, intelligence - we have to have in ourselves. We can't inspire these things in our kids if we don't have them. Highly recommend. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to Angela Risner with appropriate and specific direction to the original content. Mar 05, Annette rated it really liked it.
What a treasure to find. Authoress Linda Leaming describes her life, enchantments and lessons learned in Bhutan. Leaming moved to the remote Himalayan country to teach English, she married and has lived in Bhutan for 17 years.
Get this book, take time, slow down, enjoy another way of looking at " the now". Sep 22, Liralen rated it liked it Shelves: travel , z , reviewed , nonfiction , first-reads , asia. Well, I haven't read Married to Bhutan yet, but I may have to. Leaming moved to Bhutan against all well-intentioned advice, in pursuit of happiness, and what do you know -- it made her happy.go here
A Field Guide to Happiness: What I Learned in Bhutan about Living, Loving, and Waking Up
She stayed, she married; she now splits her time between Bhutan and Tennessee. It's a light read, a fast read, but surprisingly given that substantive. Leaming places a premium on happiness, as illustrated in this tidbit of hers in the introduction: When I was a kid, I played a board game, Careers , which I Well, I haven't read Married to Bhutan yet, but I may have to. Leaming places a premium on happiness, as illustrated in this tidbit of hers in the introduction: When I was a kid, I played a board game, Careers , which I never won.
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And I played a lot. In it, players have to set their own goals for winning by allocating a certain number of points, 60 in all, to a combination of fame, money, or happiness. Most people divide the points evenly and give 20 points to each. Every time I played I put all my points, all 60 of them, on happiness. I didn't care about fame or money.
I stubbornly refused to do otherwise, even when my friend's older brother explained that this made it statistically a lot harder to win. It didn't bother me that it was hard--nearly impossible. It's always been about happiness for me. I was a sensitive, possibly moody child: determined, some might say inflexible. Eventually I figured out putting all your points on happiness is a terrible strategy for winning a board game, but it turns out to be a pretty interesting strategy for life.
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A set? I too never won. But I didn't lose because my strategy wasn't conducive to winning -- I lost because I didn't have a strategy in the first place. I like Leaming's way better. At any rate, she delivers lessons by way of stories; in many places, those lessons are still ones she's working on applying.
Having knowledge and applying it being two different things She's not afraid to poke fun at herself, or at anyone around her; she's comes across as both pragmatic and witty. All luggage lost on the way to an isolated foreign country? Okay then. It probably wasn't necessary in the first place. Lots of little stories about cultural differences, too -- not so much about the differences themselves, but about adapting to life somewhere where the norms are different, where what's polite and impolite is different.
It's a nice take. It does feel a bit blog-like in places -- episodic, I guess, and informal. That's probably the biggest beef I had with the book She doesn't feel the need to tell every last detail of her life, her work, her marriage , which is a level of restraint that I love in memoir; she manages to make fairly routine well -- relatively speaking experiences interesting via timing and I suspect that I'll enjoy Married to Bhutan just as much, more if it's more linear.
I received a free copy of this book via a Goodreads giveaway. Sep 04, Maxine rated it liked it Shelves: memoir , book-pledge , essays , happiness , ebook , mindfulness , non-fiction , buddhism , travel , introspective. I enjoyed this book of short essays on lessons learned while living in Bhutan, but I didn't love it. Linda Leaming is a woman from Tennessee, who moves to Bhutan to teach English, and decides to stay.
She I enjoyed this book of short essays on lessons learned while living in Bhutan, but I didn't love it. She marries a Bhutanese man who is a Thangka painter , and somewhat adopts a 6-year old Bhutanese girl. And along the way learns to be more Bhutanese in her outlook on life. The best stories are the ones where she returns to America with her husband, and you see American life through the eyes of someone to whom 'regular' life seems so alien. From chapter "What Namgay thinks is magical are electric drills, self-serve soft-swirl ice cream that's free with a meal, salad spinners, anything made by Ronco, Cinnabon sweet rolls, coupons, buying pants and getting a free alteration, American grocery stores, tape measures, toilets that flush unaided, debit cards, and leaf blowers.
Reading it all at once will make the entire thing forgettable and repetitive. But, reading it a bit at a time you get to experience the magic that is Bhutan, or perhaps the magic of learning to be who you are in a culture that prizes your life more than your things.